The Rule of Law Is Not Enough

The Trial

I was called for jury duty three times in two years always in spring or fall consulting busy-season.

“So just when would be a good time for you, Mr. Culler.”

“I’m free the three days before Thanksgiving, your honor.”

“Fine. The clerk will schedule you. Next.”

At the county courthouse at 8:00 a.m. on a November Monday, I was impaneled as an alternate on a trial for which jury selection completed Friday. The same judge welcomed me by name and released another juror, to “prepare Thanksgiving dinner” and directed the plaintiff’s attorney to begin his opening statement. “Try to be brief, counselor.” He wasn’t.

It was a civil trial, a dispute between two neighbors. The plaintiff’s attorney was fiery, “. . . will show that the defendant, Mr. Charles T____, did through negligence and willfully malicious intent cause the injury of my client, Mr. Robert J_____. . . such that he is no longer able to earn his living. . . .“

The defense attorney was briefer. He said there was no negligence and that the defendant “took actions to prevent the plaintiff from annexing his property and that any injuries sustained by the plaintiff were caused his own actions.”

The evidence was presented by both sides over the next two days.

The two neighbors lived in the hills outside the city. Bob’s family lived there for generations and his father sold Charley the land on which he built his house. Bob was a plasterer, Charley had a landscaping business.

Bob asked Charley if it would be OK if he parked a car on the flat space at the bottom of Charley’s property when they had guests. Charley agreed. When Charley didn’t mow the spot, Bob grew impatient and mowed it. Then Bob paved the parking spot on Charley’s land, without asking Charley. Acrimony grew. Angry words flew between Bob and Charley and their spouses. There were “always cars parked there” making it hard for Charley turn intro his driveway with his landscaping truck.

One day Charley came home to find that Bob had erected a basketball hoop on two 6”x 6” posts cemented into the ground. Charley’s driveway was blocked by cars owned by Bob’s son’s friends who were annoyed that Charley was interrupting their three-on-three basketball game. Charley exchanged rude words with the boys and told Bob to “Take that hoop down and never park there again.”

Days went by, more rude words were exchanged, but no action taken and b-ball games lasted until late at night. Someone set up lights on the “court.”

Charley’s chainsaw cut the hoop stand at ground level; he moved it to Bob’s property and then dumped a four foot high pile of dirt and stones on the asphalt on his property, eight feet from the road rendering the space (and “court’) unusable. More inappropriate language was  exchanged.

About a week later, Charley answered the door to a policeman who informed him there had been an accident on his property. He came down to find Bob standing next to his car the front two wheels of which were on the pile of dirt and stones. Much swear-laden yelling ensued. Bob wanted to press charges because Charley had “created a safety hazard.” Officer D____’s report described the pile of dirt as “completely off the road” and concluded that Bob “either lost control of his vehicle or drove off the road on purpose.” The report concluded there was no crime, nor safety hazard. The dirt pile was visible for 100 yards. Someone took pictures of the approach, both driveways,  and the car on the dirt pile with a measuring tape showing the distance from the road. The officer said he “encouraged the neighbors to resolve their differences without involving law enforcement in the future.”

Bob sued Charley for one million dollars for injuries, pain and suffering caused by Charley’s negligence and malicious intent. Testimony took two days.

Tuesday at 5:00 p.m. the judge charged the jury to begin deliberations that evening because of the holiday. Dinner would be served at 6:00 p.m. He reminded the jury that our job was to follow the law. Was there negligence? Was a safety hazard created?

“There’s been some emotional testimony, but there is also documentary evidence, police reports, deed plots and photographs. Perhaps you can reach a verdict this evening and have tomorrow free,”  That was optimistic. We the jury were undecided when they sent us home after 9:00 p.m.

The Deliberations

I used to tell this story being judgmental about some fellow jurors  who were influenced by the emotions in the case.

“Bob really hurt his shoulder. He can’t do work over his head and ceiling work is more than fifty percent of his work as a plasterer.”

“There is no way I would let anyone speak to my kid like that. Charley’s lucky it wasn’t me.”

Some didn’t understand the law. “Let’s fine them both $10 and tell them to be better neighbors.”

“That will a hung jury and they’ll have to try the case all over again.”

“Why don’t we find for the plaintiff, but only award him $1.”

“Because on appeal the verdict of negligence will stand, and only the amount will be appealed, and if there was negligence, then $1 is not a reasonable award.”

At 5:00 p.m. on Wednesday, we the jury agreed that the documentary evidence, photos and police report indicated that the pile of dirt was off the road, on Charley’s own property. In spite of our misgivings about disrespect and bad language, Charley could legally place the dirt there; there was no negligence. We found for the defense.

The plaintiff’s lawyer requested to “poll the jury,” ask us each how we voted and why, and I was momentarily petrified, because I thought our fragile consensus had too much to do with the holiday. The judge denied his request and sent us home.

Lessons Learned

At the time, my lesson was that I never wanted to rely upon “a jury of my peers.” Too many on the jury didn’t understand the law, were swayed by emotion, and felt pressured by the press of the holiday to think clearly or make good decisions. I felt like Henry Fonda in the film “Twelve Angry Men,” the 1957 Sidney Lumet film, which is arguably the best example of one man using reason to overcome emotion and ensure that justice prevails.

Yeah, but. . .

Feelings are important especially when considering issues of intent and malice afore-thought.  Charley did have malice. Bob did hurt himself, at least, if we believe doctor’s report. I still believe we made the right decision.

Upon Further Deliberation

Thirty-five years later, I have been distressed wondering about the effects of the wars the world and I revisited this case, because that’s what Bob and Charley had – a war, a small war perhaps, and as far as I know no one lost his life – but a war, none-the-less.

I don’t know what happened after the trial with Bob, Charley, and their families, but I don’t imagine that their relationship improved easily. I doubt that the legal remedy led to reconciliation and bonhomie.

One man felt ownership and protectiveness of his land. One said “my father owned it long before you got here. Your land is my family’s legacy.”

One felt a favor had been abused. The other said, “you weren’t using it and besides I improved it.” The favor had become a given, expected, deserved.

Both felt angry and disrespected. Words hurt and destruction of property hurts. Injuries are long-remembered. Bob talked bitterly of his son’s humiliation being called names in front of friends.

There was recriminatory testimony, which started with “They always. . .  or They never. . . .”

The law didn’t really serve either family. True, Charley won that case and he avoided a million dollar judgement, but the conflict was likely to go underground, beneath the visibility of the law.

Some of my early work as a consultant was in intergroup conflict resolution. Rules, what should happen, never resolved conflict. What worked was if each party could listen to the other side, and be able to state the other party’s point of view and the feelings associated with it.

Then the parties could establish accepted behavior and a grievance process when things went awry. Even that didn’t always work, but it was a start.

The court could have mediated conflict resolution with Charley and Bob, but that really isn’t the role of the court. Family and friends could have an intervention. But only Charley and Bob could commit to make it work.

I am unsure what it would take for Bob and Charley. What about the rest of us?

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4 Comments

  1. David Ford

    Good Morning Alan.

    Your story is so well told. I felt as though I was a member of the jury.

    These words resonated with me “Rules, what should happen, never resolved conflict. What worked was if each party could listen to the other side, and be able to state the other party’s point of view and the feelings associated with it.” At the end of the day we need (must) talk to one another.

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    • Alan Culler

      David
      Thank you so much.
      While the trial and conflict were long agao -i began to think about how conflicts get resolved. If two neighbors can’t get over something this small -however will we resolve ethnic and national conflicts with a long history of far more grievous harms.
      As you say at some point “we must talk.”
      And forgive
      to move on.
      Thanks again for your compliments and support.

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  2. Bob Musial

    Another one with which I can relate, Alan. Like you, I also was a juror. In my case, I was selected to be the jury foreman. It was largely because everyone was confused as you mentioned, but no one wanted to take charge and make any decisions. After about an hour of back and forth listening to my fellow jurors, I finally said we had to move forward and gain an agreement. For my vocalization, I was unanimously selected as the jury spokesperson. (That’s what I get for opening my mouth.)

    Anyway, I don’t remember what the case was even about. Eventually, we did make a determination. Also don’t recall what it was. But, I do remember after the trial was over, as I was standing outside the courtroom, one of the attorneys asked me what I thought of his presentation, which I thought was interesting. I felt like telling him he had probably watched too many Perry Mason episodes and tried acting too much to prove his point. But I didn’t want to shatter his dreams about becoming a SAG-AFTRA member. Pretty sure I just mumbled something and left. It was a unique experience though and provided me with an interesting perspective about our legal system, the participants on both sides of the table, and the person wearing the robe.

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    • Alan Culler

      Thanks Bob for your comment and support.
      There is a good deal of theatre in the practice of law. It wins cases for thehistrionic attorney, but I think theatrical truth -“does it engage me and hold my attention” -is different from Truth.

      “move forward and gain an agreement,” is the core of conflict resolution too -so behavior in the juryroom might be a recipe for peace making, if we had a standard (law) and a timeframe to agree such that it forced those of different views to express them.
      That might require a visit from aliens to resolve conflict on a global scale.😉

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