When Matters

“Ask me, ‘What’s the secret of good comedy?’”

“Oooohkayee, “Whaaats da secret of goooood Comedeeee?”

“Not like that. Ask me like you really want to know.”

“Oh all right. What’s the secret of good com-“  “TIMING!”

That was one of my annoying fifteen-year-old jokes; now it’s told by annoying ten-year-olds. Evidently, in kid-comedy, the jokes don’t change, just when kids think they’re funny.

For the record, no one I ever told that joke to thought it was funny; I thought it was hilarious. When the ten-year-old told it to me, I played along and chuckled, while she guffawed enough to lose her balance.

When matters.

I hate to wait. Pre-9/11, if I arrived at the airport and didn’t have to rush down the jetway to knock on the closed airplane door, I thought I was wasting time.  More than once, I learned empirically that they don’t allow you to do that anymore.

I married my wife that same year, and shortly afterward said, “Oh, no, I’m going to be early for the rest of my life.” The only plane I missed since was when I flew with a colleague who hadn’t empirically learned the lesson “Close time is twenty minutes before flight time, sir, even if the plane is just sitting there.”

When matters in deliveries. Do I really need two-day delivery? Not really for most things, but if I forgot my grandson’s birthday and you promise me a short delivery time, so I can correct my error, and you fail, I will use your hidden customer service phone number to express my displeasure.

When matters in doctor’s appointments. When you call Friday afternoon to confirm my Monday 11:00 am appointment, when you know it was made six months earlier for 9:00 am, saying, “well, if you can’t make 11:00 the next available is in four months,” you shouldn’t be surprised that I will be annoyed.

When matters in business.

A product based upon innovative technology that arrives late is suboptimal at best.

“Oh, we’re not really a market leader. We’re more of a ‘fast follower.’” My response: “How far behind?” This client didn’t have the processes to follow quickly. They had produced a series of unprofitable “me too” copies of others’ new products. Then they launched an innovation initiative that produced some market-leading products.

When matters, if you are “ahead of your time.” The so-called “bleeding edge” of innovation arises because innovation precedes customer acceptance, like the AT&T video phone or the Apple Newton. Perhaps the firm innovates without knowing when it would have the bandwidth to market innovations, like the Xerox Palo Alto Research Center (PARC), which produced the graphical user interface that became the basis of the Macintosh computer and Microsoft Windows.

Technical innovators are often naturally “Field of Dreams” strategists, named for the catchphrase from the 1989 Kevin Costner movie, “If you build it they will come.” In the movie Ray, the Costner character built a baseball field, and long-dead players came to play, and the general public came for miles to watch games. As a strategy, this kind of customer-ignoring, product-driven culture often doesn’t work. Asking, “Who will buy it, and when?” is a good discipline for innovators.

When matters in giving feedback.

“The difference between helpful advice and unwanted criticism is largely a matter of when it is given.”

There is a little-known piece of research by behavioral psychologist B.F. Skinner on this subject. Dr. Skinner did a great deal of his research with rats in mazes, and, while I can see the relevance of much of that study group for the inhabitants of factories and cubicles, this research was done with experimental and control groups of real people, performing a complex, mechanical and computational task.

Skinner discovered that the purpose of the feedback should drive when it is given. If a manager wants to affect the workers’ motivation to repeat the behavior, then feedback should be given directly following the behavior. “Good job,” “Nice work,” or “Don’t do that again, it’s dangerous!” affect motivation to repeat the behavior or not.

If a manager wants the worker to change the behavior, so-called corrective or formative feedback, the feedback should be given prior to the worker doing the behavior. “This time, try just picking up one piece of stock.” “This time, please put the data supporting each part of your research in that place in the report rather than at the end.”

Skinner advocated splitting feedback with different purposes, ideally separated by a lot of time or at least breaking the conversation with a change in topic. This flies in the face of the usual HR-approved performance appraisal “sandwich.” “I really like your work, BUT it has the following FLAWS. You’re still a nice person, keep trying. You’re getting there.”

Split feedback is hard to do, but Skinner found in his experiment that by splitting feedback he was able to increase productivity fifteen to thirty percent.

When matters in leading change.

To make change, every leader needs a vision. Vision is at the top of most of the requirements for change. A vision is a clear, inspiring picture of the desired future state. “The land of milk and honey,” is what has come down to us as the vision promoted by Moses to the Israelites. It’s a lovely vision. “Come, we are going to a place where our goats can graze, and have so many kids we’ll have lots of milk left over, and we’ll put beehives under our orchards and have honey with our rugalach in the morning.”

But I bet Moses didn’t start there. He first had to get the Hebrews to make the exodus. “Hey, this Pharaoh guy is bad news! He is killing us. We never have enough to eat. We can’t go on like this.”

So the compelling case for change must come first. People have to internalize it. Then they have the feel the urgency –“We can’t go on like this!” Then they have to know who is leading them. “Come on, you know me and Zipporah, and Aaron and Elisheba. We’re’ all-in for this change.”

Then followers have to choose change and commit to follow. When is the time for the vision? When people have internalized the case for change and feel the urgency. Can the vision be the reason to commit? Sure. Can it be built by followers? Sure. If and WHEN they are ready.

 

In many fields of endeavor, WHY may be more important than WHAT or HOW. But think about WHEN, sooner rather than later, because WHEN matters.

 

 

New Book Change Leader? Who Me? Coming soon

Change Leader? Who Me? Hard Earned Wisdom for Those New to Leading Change will be published in a few weeks. The book is a collection of stories and essays about what it takes to lead change. There are concept essays from my almost forty years “helping leaders make strategic change,” including descriptions of change “levers,” tools, models, methodologies, and skills to help start or accelerate organizational change. There are some unusual examples ( e.g., a Ritz Carleton shoe shiner, Genghis Khan, and Bruce Springsteen).

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A Friday Some Years Ago:

9:00. Phone rings.

“Hello? Oh, Hi Ken…”

12:00 noon. Phone rings.

“Hi Ken, what’s up?”

4:45 p.m. Phone rings.

“Hi Ken… Say Ken, Are you checking on me?”

“Well, actually, yeah. When I work from home I only get about two hours of work done all day. What with the kids and the dog, trying to work from the kitchen counter, and the TV, and computer games. It’s very distracting. We pay you quite a lot and I was just trying to see if you are actually working.”

“OK, Ken, I get it. But I’m in my office on the second floor of my house. It has a desk, phone, files and computer. There’s no TV. I have no games on my computer. My kids are grown and don’t live with me. The dog is old and goes out before work and after. Besides Ken, I only charge you when I’m actually working. We can review the training I wrote today if you’d like.”

“Well, I’m headed home; can you email it?”

“Sure.”

My client was new to the job and he had inherited a consulting team. To him it was easy to see us working when we were on site, but given his personal experience working from home, he couldn’t imagine us working productively on Friday, when we weren’t on site.

In fact, for certain kinds of head-down individual work, I got a great deal more done on Fridays than I did during the week, when I had to attend meetings with clients and build commitment to change. However, I understood that many managers in offices shared Ken’s experience and the concerns that arose from it.

Then Came Covid

Durin the coronavirus pandemic, workers in factories, healthcare, first responders, retail, and food service risked their lives and office workers learned to be productive “working from home.” Office productivity didn’t suffer as expected and office workers liked the flexibility, the lack of wasted commuting time, and not wearing pants on Zoom calls.

I retired in 2018, so this really didn’t affect me directly. I heard about it from my kids. One time consulting colleagues called to ask how I worked as an independent consultant. People asked about my home office and what the IRS required to deduct the set-up of a home office, (dedicated space, documented use, and expense receipts). I started to see jobs advertised as “remote,” or “hybrid.”

Some people figured out they could work from anywhere and you saw magazine articles of people working from the deck of their beach house. I was always jealous of that because I didn’t have a beach house.

Some people complained about the isolation of Covid-time. As the pandemic died down, some people reminisced about standing on balconies of city apartments banging pots in support of first responders and healthcare workers. Covid was something that affected us all, a unifier after a time of division.

Then Covid was (finally) over

Well, not really over. Covid is still around. We’re just done with it, over it; Covid is so four years ago. For the last four years, there has been a discussion building.

“OK everybody, it’s time to return to work.”

That one pissed off all those workers in factories, healthcare, first responders, retail, and food service who risked their lives.

“We never stopped working.”

So R-T-W became R-T-O, “return to office.”

Some were enthusiastic; some were less so. Sure, there would be less isolation, but more colds and flu (and Covid whispered the risk averse). And then there is wasted commute time. And then there is the flexibility of working when I want. And then there is the fact that I don’t have to stay late because Mary bent my ear about her mom, and Ted just had to relive the highlights of the big game, etc.

“OK, well, what about two days per week?”

“Maybe.”

“Three?”

“I don’t know.”

It’s been a long four years.

This conversation has been slowly accelerating. I must admit that, Boomer dinosaur that I am, I wasn’t particularly won over by the Gen X, Y, Z, Alpha whines about commuting costs and cleaning bills for the pants they would now have to wear. I also thought that some workers were being clearly unreasonable in their demands.

My nephew runs a retail food business and told me about job applicants who asked if they could “do the retail floor job remotely.” Some jobs require face time.

Culture is built by being together. Teams function best if they actually know each other. I began to hypothesize that introverts would want to work at home but extraverts would want to return to the office. It turns out there is no evidence of that.

I have had more and more conversations recently with office workers, people I respect for their intelligence and projected competence, who say, “If they insist on 5-days-in-office, I will leave.” Or “OK, I’ll come in for 9:00 and leave at 5:00, but there is no working till 7:00 and no calls on nights and weekends.”

There have been some famous CEOs who have gone public “R-T-O or else!” At a recent cookout, huddling under a canopy during an inconvenient downpour, I was engaged in conversation with the manager of administration for the board of directors at a money center bank.

“My CEO is friends with another CEO who has drawn a very public line in the sand, but my colleagues, my boss and three quarters of my staff will walk if he enforces the RTO mandate. Most of the board are off site and 90% of my work is email and phone. I have to be here for board meetings and two or three days a week is reasonable. Five is a hard “No!”

I began to think that managers, even CEOs, who insisted on a 5-day RTO mandate, might be driven by their own convenience  ̶  “I want to turn around an give someone a job directly. I don’t want to find out they’re ‘shirking from home’ and have to call them.”

Then, in today’s New York Times, I came upon an article by Adam Grant, et al, at the Wharton Business School, that quotes research, that demonstrates that:

“ One: Return-to-office mandates don’t increase profits by weeding out people who lack commitment. They motivate the most talented people to jump ship. Two: As long as people are together for half the week, remote work isn’t isolating. And three: Hybrid work isn’t bad for performance, innovation or connection. “

Grant et al go on to describe how adamant RTO mandates are most often pushed by narcissistic managers that require constant attention, as demonstrated by the size of their pay packages, offices, and their photos in the annual reports.

So where does that leave RTO?

It depends. There are clearly some jobs that require presence, just like first responders, and retail workers, if your job has a face to the public, well, you gotta face the public. If your job has more individual than team work, you might have more of an argument for remote or hybrid work.

If you are a manager, who just can’t get over the fact that, “Hey, I got up every day and went into the office. I sucked up to my manager and now its my turn,” then maybe look in a mirror. Get over yourself, and see how you can lead change three days a week or on Zoom without any pants.

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2 Comments

  1. Bob Musial

    I can relate to your example of Xerox being ahead of the curve. I worked for Xerox and saw the GUI interface demonstrated about two year before Gates and Jobs saw it demonstrated it.

    It seems to have worked out well for them.

    Timing is everything.

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    • Alan Culler

      I remember that.
      Thanks for your continued and perpetual support, Bob

      Reply

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